Jul 26, 2010
I am a 21 year old female girl living in california. When i turned 21 I put my life on pause.I dont go out, i dont live life anymore, for one reason though, and its well worth it. In my eyes family always comes first no matter what. I gave up an amazing job and left the coast and my whole life behind to move in with my grandma. My grandma is 77 years old. She has spinal stinosis a broken hip a pace maker and difibulator. The doctors want to perform surgery on her but they cant. Everytime they try to she goes into cardiac arrest.She has been on life support twice the past month for 3 days at a time. So she lives her life every day in pain. She cant do anything and she use to live on her own. IT made me sad that her daughters (my mom and aunt) couldnt come stay with her every now and again. So i said screw it and came to live with her. The only problem is, is that she needs 24 hour care. Her medical wont pay me to be her caregiver and i dont have time to work because i take care of her. Im way behind on bills now. I have western dental, chase bank, AIS and some collections people calling me EVERYDAY. Chase Bank called me 12 times in one day! I dunno what to do anymore. I owe my friend money i dont have money to pay my bills......... the list goes on and on. All i wanna do is pay off everything and pay my friend back the 400 dollars i owe her. But i DONT want to leave my grandma, i love her very much and we are so close. I'am her Angel :) Any ideas on what i can do ?
